13 November 2024
08 November 2024
When The Mask Slips
Comeuppance, for me, hasn’t been a grand reckoning but rather a personal one—a call to see my own actions clearly, without the filter of self-justification. It’s the work of removing my own masks, of facing who I’ve been to others and finding ways to be more conscious, more careful. Because if my kindness doesn’t reach those who have borne my missteps, am I really as good as I want to believe?
We talk about karma as if it’s some cosmic justice, but sometimes, karma is the simple reality of realizing that those who were hurt remember, even if we’d rather they didn’t. For me, that’s enough of a reason to be better, to tread more gently, and to be sure that the person I want to be is the same person others truly experience.
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17 October 2024
Chasing Justice: A Dream That Stands the Test of Time
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12 May 2010
The Looming Karma (Haiku)
Next week’s theme: Ego
The Dalai Lama himself has this to say about how to earn good karma points...
- Take into account that great love and great achievements involve Great Risk.
- When you Lose, don’t lose the Lesson.
- Follow the three R’s:
- Respect for self,
- Respect for others and
- Responsibility for all your actions. - Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful Stroke of Luck.
- Learn the Rules so you know how to break them properly.
- Don’t let a little dispute injure a great relationship.
- When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
- Spend some time Alone every day.
- Open your arms to change, but don’t let go of your Values.
- Remember that Silence is sometimes the best answer.
- Live a good, Honorable Life. Then when you get older and
think back, you’ll be able to enjoy it a Second Time. - A Loving Atmosphere in your Home is the foundation for your life.
- In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the Current situation. Don’t bring up the past.
- Share your Knowledge. It is a way to achieve immortality.
- Be gentle with the earth.
- Once a year, go someplace you’ve never been before.
- Remember that the Best Relationship is one in which Your Love For Each Other Exceeds Your Need for each other.
- Judge your Success by what you had to give up in order to get it.
- If you want others to be happy, practice Compassion.
- If you want to be happy, practice Compassion.
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