“We can never turn back the pages of time, though we may wish to relive a happy moment, or say goodbye just one last time, we never can, because the sands of time continue to fall, and we can’t turn the hourglass over.”
“Some of us think holding on makes us strong, but sometimes it is letting go.”
~Herman Hesse
You Are Stronger Than You Think
"You are stronger than you think, remember to stand tall.
Every challenge in your life helps you to grow.
Every problem you encounter strengthens your mind and your soul.
Every trouble you overcome increases your understanding of life.
When all your troubles weigh heavily on your shoulders, remember that beneath the burden you can stand tall, because you are never given more than you can handle... and you are stronger than you think."
Today, my Dad saw my blog for the first time. Sat on his wheelchair (he rarely uses it now but he was really feeling tired tonight), with tears welling up in his eyes, he read the special post I made for him. His voice cracked as he said "it's beautiful.." I don't know if he was referring to the post or the blog site. But then in all of 42 years of my life, there was not one single negative word he said about anything I did. He was and is always there to encourage me.
After his stroke in 2007, we thought we would lose him. But being the epitome of strength and courage that he is, he fought his way out of misery and helped himself to stand up, walk and talk again. His unwavering faith is a continued source of inspiration for me and the rest of our family.
To celebrate Fathers' Day, here is a touching letter which embodies every parent's desire to be loved, understood and cared for by his child when he grows old. We will all grow old someday. Will our kids be there for us the way we were there for them when they were growing up?
Papa, I would not have made it through the storm without you. When my sky was covered in darkness, you were there as a glint of light making sure that I found my way. When I was too scared, you held my hand and assured me everything would be alright. From a distance, you proudly watched as I slowly picked up the broken pieces of my life, always careful not to interfere, allowing me to have the space I needed. You never stopped believing in me even when I started doubting myself. You carried me through it all. And you proved once more that you are truly my hero.
I guess, in your eyes, I will always be your little girl that's why you are always here for me. Thank you for your unconditional love.
HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!
You're My Hero by Teresa James
I would ride on your shoulders And look out on the world Pretending I was big and tall like you When you were there to hold me I never was afraid You made me feel there's nothing I can't do
If I'd spread my wings to fly When I was very small I knew that you'd be standing by To catch me if I fall
You're my hero Chasing the monsters from my room Going on trips around the moon The one who's always been there faithfully You're my hero And 'cause you're my Dad... I'm twice as blessed and lucky to be me
As I kept on growing We often disagreed But you let me find myself in my own way And it's funny, how just lately I've come to recognize How wise you are becoming every day There's so much you've given me I hope I've made you proud You're everything a Dad should be And it's time to tell you now
You're my hero You didn't have to say a word Your love was the message that I heard Inspiring me to be all I can be You're my hero And 'cause you're my Dad... I'm twice as blessed and lucky to be me
On January 25, 2005, I lost my husband. Welcome to my random thoughts about losing James and finding myself again. For in this journey called Life, "there is no such thing as a negative experience... only opportunities to grow."
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Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect. It means you decide to see beyond the imperfections.
"Count your blessings. Once you realize how valuable you are and how much you have going for you, the smiles will return, the sun will break out, the music will play, and you will finally be able to move forward to the life that God intended for you with grace, strength, courage and confidence." ~ Og Mandino
If I could wish for my life to be perfect, it would be tempting, but I would have to decline, for life would no longer teach me anything.
"For I know the
plans I have for
you," declares
the Lord, "plans
to prosper you
and not to harm
you, plans to give
you hope and a
future."
Jeremiah 29:11-14
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