Where Do I Go From Here?
"And now it's my turnTo try and find my way
And if I should get lost
At least I'll own today..."
- It's My Turn, Diana Ross
I guess the only way to determine where you are going is to fully understand and appreciate where you have been. All of us went through different struggles in the past- with relationships, career choices or even your own self worth. This is now the time to stop worrying and start evaluating those unresolved issues. This year, resolve to make sure that these problems will no longer be part of your future.
In fact, you don't even have to wait for new year or some crossroads to re-evaluate your life and ask yourself these questions...
Where have I been?
Have I reached any of my dreams? Have I made a difference in someone's life? Have I made excuses rather than fulfilling promises?
Where am I going?
Will I live my life to the fullest or find reasons why I didn't? Will I believe in myself and my talents or pretend that I never had what it takes?
What does the future hold for me?
The future for everyone is unknown, but what paths will I choose to lead me into my future and make a part of my life?
By answering them honestly, you can figure out what you have done, what you plan on doing and what you can change.
You have to face the truth and start dealing not only with the consequences but also with the reality of what exists once you give up some of your old ways. If it doesn't work at first, just keep trying. KEEP BELIEVING that YOU CAN CREATE what you want from life and YOU CAN MAKE IT HAPPEN. Stay motivated in achieving positive changes. Little by little, you will see how different days will bring different joys... and the person you were meant to be, YOU WILL BE.
4 POINTS OF VIEW:
My dearest sweet Bing. This is an awesome post. I love it because I so believe in myself. I have to believe in what I do always, for if I don't, nothing works. Out of your three questions, the only one I can honestly answer is the first one. That is easy. But the next too, I can't even begin to answer. I don't know anything about the future. So all I do is hold on to this very point in time and hope that I'm doing and believing in myself well enough at that exact moment and everything does fall into place. It gets created and it does happen. Might sound a little weird, but that's the only way I know how to do it. :) xoxoxox
Hi Bing, this is a great post.
I too has had been forced to ride through a big setback in my life some time ago. I struggled hard to let it pass and today, I know it will not stand a chance in my present nor my future. I won this fight because I knew the enemy, MYSELF.
It is so true. If we do not resolve the past, we won't have a present, what more a future.
This is excellent advice. We have to take responsibility for yourselves if we expect great returns. Excellent.
Have a terrific day. :)
Thank you Bing for these enouraging words, yes, we need to face the truth and then move on. We must believe in ourselves. Blessings.
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