tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post5514437297570797446..comments2023-10-24T22:25:44.968+08:00Comments on OF LIVING AND LOVING... AND COPING...: Slipping Back to "What If's"Bing Yaphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01562123246667338670noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-87757375980483356712009-01-18T10:57:00.000+08:002009-01-18T10:57:00.000+08:00Thank you everyone for your moral support. This bl...Thank you everyone for your moral support. This blog has truly helped me deal with our loss. It has become some sort of a memorial for James. Through this blog, I met good friends who have unfailingly encouraged me to go on. And I've also met a few who are in the same painful journey. You have seen all my moods here. Thank you for allowing me to be myself.<BR/><BR/>Honestly, I am so tired alreadyBing Yaphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01562123246667338670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-89658247256168040782009-01-17T23:51:00.000+08:002009-01-17T23:51:00.000+08:00Bing,Never be sorry for the way you feel! Those fe...Bing,<BR/><BR/>Never be sorry for the way you feel! Those feelings are yours, and yours alone! You are feeling them because you have to. <BR/><BR/>You are so much stronger than you give yourself credit for! Yes, you are grieving, but you are also living...and raising a family. Credit goes where credit is due. You just don't see what all of us see....be who you are, feel what you are feeling, KAThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10392228973312811877noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-29403012426917002852009-01-17T07:50:00.000+08:002009-01-17T07:50:00.000+08:00It's ok to relapse, and you don't have to apologis...It's ok to relapse, and you don't have to apologise, because you will get back up again, stronger and better able to appreciate every single moment of greatness. <BR/>Healing thoughts and prayers are with you. xxxAlisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06960199428417526306noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-47244940875809068742009-01-16T11:25:00.000+08:002009-01-16T11:25:00.000+08:00Your post makes me want to cry....very touching.Your post makes me want to cry....very touching.Rita T.https://www.blogger.com/profile/01830881581676707303noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-39409813936452180442009-01-16T10:31:00.000+08:002009-01-16T10:31:00.000+08:00That is a beautiful song. And how wonderful it is ...That is a beautiful song. And how wonderful it is that you are able to share music that was meaningful to you and James with your children.<BR/><BR/>I can't imagine that pain that you still experience. Just do your best one moment, one day at a time. And if doing your best means closing the door and bawling, then do it with gusto.<BR/><BR/>I'm sorry. I usually don't try to give advice.<BR/><BR/>SUSAN SONNENhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17348324221180443517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-70895637256502301402009-01-16T08:35:00.000+08:002009-01-16T08:35:00.000+08:00Such a lovely post. Music stirs the soul... it m...Such a lovely post. Music stirs the soul... it makes perfect sense that your feeling how ever you are feeling... loss takes time.The Frugal Angel-Guided Psychichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17212278465872707754noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-11766430954392517362009-01-16T07:07:00.000+08:002009-01-16T07:07:00.000+08:00Hi Pinklady,That song is a very touching tribute t...Hi Pinklady,<BR/>That song is a very touching tribute to you and James. It is ok that some days you can't be as strong as you would like. It is what it is. We all grieve in our own way.<BR/>Take Care,<BR/>Janet :)Janet Gardnerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08655146770794074362noreply@blogger.com