tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post3548989620064429009..comments2023-10-24T22:25:44.968+08:00Comments on OF LIVING AND LOVING... AND COPING...: Heaven's GateBing Yaphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01562123246667338670noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-11954335006968818842010-08-25T21:46:42.446+08:002010-08-25T21:46:42.446+08:00What a lovely homage. I am sorry for your loss...What a lovely homage. I am sorry for your loss...JamieDedeshttp://musingbymoonlight.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-87632369194116870422010-08-19T00:33:40.353+08:002010-08-19T00:33:40.353+08:00Back at you my friend.....big time :) xoxoxoBack at you my friend.....big time :) xoxoxoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-14007678868331707282010-08-18T13:12:30.310+08:002010-08-18T13:12:30.310+08:00thom, just like you i woke up one day realizing th...thom, just like you i woke up one day realizing that i had to shape up and move on, that there was more in life to live for. i may have lost one heart but 3 other hearts loved me (and continue to love me) unconditionally. yes, it was all about re-claiming one's life. <br /><br />after 5 years, "i miss him" still hits me but it's no longer painful. there were too many happy Bing Yaphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01562123246667338670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-7184396283411085662010-08-18T03:40:03.878+08:002010-08-18T03:40:03.878+08:00Your friendship means the same to me my friend. An...Your friendship means the same to me my friend. And I'm truly glad you didn't give up blogging and give up just on yourself. <br /><br />How did I do it you ask? In the beginning I don't remember actually. It was all so raw, real, hurtful. But something inside me one day just said you know you have a life. Are you going to squander it away or enjoy what time you have left. i decided Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-4551246688499563152010-08-17T19:03:06.850+08:002010-08-17T19:03:06.850+08:00slickolas, i'm glad you like it. thanks for s...slickolas, i'm glad you like it. thanks for stopping by.Bing Yaphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01562123246667338670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-5154970154662709522010-08-17T19:02:36.773+08:002010-08-17T19:02:36.773+08:00hoiden, thanks for appreciating my post. :)hoiden, thanks for appreciating my post. :)Bing Yaphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01562123246667338670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-59391830291585892922010-08-17T19:01:55.167+08:002010-08-17T19:01:55.167+08:00thom, you have no idea how much your friendship m...thom, you have no idea how much your friendship means to me. you have been very supportive of my blog and, believe it or not, your kind and gentle prodding kept me going here during those times when i just wanted to give up blogging. when i needed to laugh or smile, i would go to your blog and always always always get more than what i expected. the way you appreciated my type/kind of music, i Bing Yaphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01562123246667338670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-55084729646588173152010-08-17T11:19:34.542+08:002010-08-17T11:19:34.542+08:00This was really touching. Great job.This was really touching. Great job.Slickolashttp://www.rhymeandcircumstance.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-15772505145169710772010-08-17T10:07:46.681+08:002010-08-17T10:07:46.681+08:00a lovely bittersweet poem:)this is a beautiful tri...a lovely bittersweet poem:)this is a beautiful tribute to ur friend...take care of urself...:)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-87870442251954034142010-08-17T02:15:38.962+08:002010-08-17T02:15:38.962+08:00Your comments on my Dear Joey post were the absolu...Your comments on my Dear Joey post were the absolute best. Talk about bringing tears to eyes :) But they are happy ones for the mere fact that even though it is through a blog you are an important part of my life. It's like we have met personally and that is one of the beauties of blogging. It was a very touching comment and I really appreciated it. You will never know how much.<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-63969764422733487402010-08-16T22:55:10.824+08:002010-08-16T22:55:10.824+08:00leo, it's really hard to see a friend go espec...leo, it's really hard to see a friend go especially when you know you won't see her bright smile ever again. we used to bump into each other in all those 80's retro parties. when i'll go to one now, i won't see her dancing to the beat again. thanks for stopping by. :)Bing Yaphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01562123246667338670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-62207557241209032602010-08-16T22:53:07.952+08:002010-08-16T22:53:07.952+08:00jenn, i wish i can say i was there for her but i ...jenn, i wish i can say i was there for her but i must admit i wasn't such a good friend. we had our moments together months before she died but i got caught up in my job and didn't go back to see her. that's why it hurts. yes, so many of us love mayen. she left behind a pretty princess whom we all believe will grow up as bright and beautiful as her mom. God bless her family! thanks Bing Yaphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01562123246667338670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-16705096083668512362010-08-16T22:50:53.057+08:002010-08-16T22:50:53.057+08:00thom i read your sunday post and i was speechless ...thom i read your sunday post and i was speechless at first. i truly understand now why and how you could relate to all my posts here. kindred spirits, aren't we?Bing Yaphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01562123246667338670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-50689832959992320692010-08-16T22:34:33.063+08:002010-08-16T22:34:33.063+08:00this was straight from the heart Bing, for I could...this was straight from the heart Bing, for I could see it there in your words.. it is a tough time when one loses someone very close.. your words are truly a tribute to her..Vinay Leo R.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13132856855570330824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-76657082783588719462010-08-16T21:49:02.243+08:002010-08-16T21:49:02.243+08:00*hugs* to you in this tough time, Bing. So sorry t...*hugs* to you in this tough time, Bing. So sorry to hear about the loss of your friend. She was far too young to leave this world! She was obviously well-loved, and you can take comfort in the fact that you were there for her and she knew how you felt about her.Jenn @ Youknow...that Blog?http://youknowthatblog.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-10809605343545980152010-08-16T14:46:53.740+08:002010-08-16T14:46:53.740+08:00Anytime my dear sweet one. You know it's funny...Anytime my dear sweet one. You know it's funny, well not funny but coincidental that you had this post. I had a post similar on Sunday. Karma you think?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-87985721163112562892010-08-16T11:42:29.426+08:002010-08-16T11:42:29.426+08:00heartspell,when death comes to people close to you...heartspell,when death comes to people close to you, acceptance is really hard. i got a text message saying she was dying at the hospital and i had to debate with myself whether i wanted to see her in that state or not. in the end, i did not get the chance to say goodbye properly. it was comforting though to see her peacefully resting inside that casket and to see no trace of her pain. <br /><br Bing Yaphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01562123246667338670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-65021451713579322442010-08-16T11:08:39.688+08:002010-08-16T11:08:39.688+08:00thom, thanks for the sunshine. you're right, i...thom, thanks for the sunshine. you're right, it's today that we have to contend with. <br /><br />today is the only time we've got and we have to focus on that if we don't want to miss or lose the moment. thank you, friend.Bing Yaphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01562123246667338670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-62889710503950162592010-08-16T11:06:48.634+08:002010-08-16T11:06:48.634+08:00jingle, my friend was truly beautiful inside and o...jingle, my friend was truly beautiful inside and out. thanks.Bing Yaphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01562123246667338670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-55202625697898241052010-08-16T11:06:04.233+08:002010-08-16T11:06:04.233+08:00suzicate, we were all saddened by her passing. bu...suzicate, we were all saddened by her passing. but then, death is one of the things that we all have to learn to cope with. life goes on for those left behind... thanks for nice comment.Bing Yaphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01562123246667338670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-34997280744755756962010-08-16T10:17:55.952+08:002010-08-16T10:17:55.952+08:00I am so sorry for the loss of your dear friend...s...I am so sorry for the loss of your dear friend...she was so beautiful and young. We never know when our time will come, I just try to be ready everyday. This was such a beautiful tribute to her... I am sure she is smiling at you in spirit... HeartspellHeartspellnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-76332381380656612152010-08-16T05:43:24.621+08:002010-08-16T05:43:24.621+08:00May Marie rest in peace always. I send aloha and s...May Marie rest in peace always. I send aloha and sunshine to you and her family. Strong memories always. <br /><br />I believe that you and I both know there will always be tomorrows. It's the todays that test our mind, body and souls.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-70887849889247274022010-08-15T21:45:40.884+08:002010-08-15T21:45:40.884+08:00I feel so sad that she is gone,
she looks so very ...I feel so sad that she is gone,<br />she looks so very lovely...<br /><br />thanks for everything,<br />I will place your pink in.Jinglehttp://www.jingleyanqiu.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-15427554889557592012010-08-15T21:25:52.706+08:002010-08-15T21:25:52.706+08:00What a lovely bittersweet poem. Never easy to lose...What a lovely bittersweet poem. Never easy to lose someone you love. My best friend also died of cancer at age 34. It has gotten easier as there are good memories, but there are still times I wish I could pick up the phone just to hear her voice.SuziCatehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04025931724313344438noreply@blogger.com