tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post2322809386256175389..comments2023-10-24T22:25:44.968+08:00Comments on OF LIVING AND LOVING... AND COPING...: We Were Not Ready To Say Goodbye...Bing Yaphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01562123246667338670noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-20803303463254307302020-09-29T20:13:17.186+08:002020-09-29T20:13:17.186+08:00I wake up everyday with a smile on my face and sin...I wake up everyday with a smile on my face and sing praises to this good spell caster called Dr, Godday who has done me a great favor by rescuing my relationship from break up. I used to think that I have a perfect relationship till when my lover started coming home late and everyday he gives me different excuses then I decided to keep a close eye on him then I discovered that he was having an Jaccy lamberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12670060044792057207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-57026710025988422122011-05-11T00:07:40.785+08:002011-05-11T00:07:40.785+08:00You are one strong lady Pink Lady.He must be proud...You are one strong lady Pink Lady.He must be proud of you, wherever he is. And your kids are going to be proud of you too when they grow up and recall how you stood up straight against the storm and sheltered them . Thanks for sharing your story. I'm sure you would be strengthening the morale of all your readers.Nadira Cotticollanhttp://nadirafromkannur.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-80821107023369576342011-01-30T12:40:06.776+08:002011-01-30T12:40:06.776+08:00Sorry i was supposed to say 'your lost' no...Sorry i was supposed to say 'your lost' not James'...Amityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18222122594130598313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-65241490967949129422011-01-30T12:37:06.427+08:002011-01-30T12:37:06.427+08:00Hi Pink Lady,
I was teary-eyed reading about Jame...Hi Pink Lady,<br /><br />I was teary-eyed reading about James' lost...putting myself into your shoes, I guess, I could never be as strong as you are!<br /><br />You have valiantly weathered the storm because you have committed everything to the Lord, however painful it is...<br /><br />I just wonder why such morbid things happen to good people and the perpetrators remain scot-free? Are we Amityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18222122594130598313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-88816232617706347902011-01-18T21:47:43.284+08:002011-01-18T21:47:43.284+08:00Your loss is very hard to read. My heart goes out...Your loss is very hard to read. My heart goes out to you. We each must find our way, when it comes to loss,<br />some are harder than others. It is one day at a time, one foot in front of the other. Perhaps it takes a lifetime, but you are building on your love.annell4https://www.blogger.com/profile/07629830133868270690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-82796904123996635812010-12-09T02:17:25.876+08:002010-12-09T02:17:25.876+08:00Dearest Bing,
You are such a strong and courageou...Dearest Bing,<br /><br />You are such a strong and courageous woman... I hope you know that. A tragedy such as yours is unimaginable, yet it's people like you who overcome these very difficult obstacles that give people like me hope that the world can become a better place. I hope you continue to get all the support you need from your family. <br /><br />And to leave you a quote from my Corahttp://www.crcdesignstudio.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-2562040814377467462010-12-08T00:28:33.307+08:002010-12-08T00:28:33.307+08:00Bing, it's been several years now since your h...Bing, it's been several years now since your husband has been gone and I'm sure the pain is still stinging you and your children. I am deeply sorry for your tragic loss and send you healing energy of love to soothe you all.<br /><br />I think yours is an especially sad story because it is so unusual and rare an occurrence. Most of us do not lose our loved ones to the way you have, so Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-88983111816097654062010-10-16T12:38:04.234+08:002010-10-16T12:38:04.234+08:00christine, that is such a sweet comment. thank you...christine, that is such a sweet comment. thank you so much.Bing Yaphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01562123246667338670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-86325682950935634872010-10-16T12:37:16.387+08:002010-10-16T12:37:16.387+08:00sherry, there was a time when i no longer wanted t...sherry, there was a time when i no longer wanted to wake up. thank God i was able to overcome that. now i thank God everyday for all the blessings i have, especially my 3 wonderful children.<br /><br />thank you for your very supportive words.Bing Yaphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01562123246667338670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-91648574262236565042010-10-16T12:34:44.863+08:002010-10-16T12:34:44.863+08:00rhythm of my soul, james will always be in our hea...rhythm of my soul, james will always be in our hearts. we had good memories and we've kept them alive. i don't want my children to forget their dad. thank you for your nice comment.Bing Yaphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01562123246667338670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-8507592914549505162010-10-16T12:32:18.748+08:002010-10-16T12:32:18.748+08:00j. rhino, i have long accepted that it was God'...j. rhino, i have long accepted that it was God's will. i have come to terms with it. thank you for your nice thought.Bing Yaphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01562123246667338670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-39905707976645170592010-10-16T12:31:15.941+08:002010-10-16T12:31:15.941+08:00jamie, thank you so much. prayers helped me get th...jamie, thank you so much. prayers helped me get through the darkest moment in my life. <br /><br />GOD BLESS!Bing Yaphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01562123246667338670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-72982806856127763292010-10-16T12:27:56.422+08:002010-10-16T12:27:56.422+08:00fiveloaf, you are right. i have offered them all t...fiveloaf, you are right. i have offered them all to him. as soon as i did that, the load lightened up and i was able to move forward. there are things beyond our control and it would be useless to try to take control over them. what is within our reach is our own reaction to everything that happens around us- it is our choice to either accept and move on or stay miserable and vindictive for a Bing Yaphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01562123246667338670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-25563465994638610822010-10-08T01:34:16.431+08:002010-10-08T01:34:16.431+08:00I am so saddened to hear of the tragedy you have e...I am so saddened to hear of the tragedy you have endured. It speaks to your beautiful inner light that your 2010 post carries such joy.Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06291220353313572984noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-49277972248282786732010-08-25T08:18:00.886+08:002010-08-25T08:18:00.886+08:00So very true, that you dont get over it , you get ...So very true, that you dont get over it , you get through it. How very sad for you and your children - and for James, and all that all of you have lost together. I applaud you for keeping on keeping on, for getting up every morning and caring for your children. In their eyes, you can still find James' light shining! Take care.Sherry Blue Skyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10769154286598233146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-68634877620387870672010-07-28T04:57:33.131+08:002010-07-28T04:57:33.131+08:00You are a very inspiring woman, Bing. Its an irrep...You are a very inspiring woman, Bing. Its an irreparable loss, but I'm sure your James is still alive in your heart. He is not too faraway. I really admire how you embrace life... Just keep moving forward.. I'm happy you got wonderful friends and family who support you, and of course, for your wonderful kids. I hope and pray that God's blessings will always be with you!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-62794712557463534802010-07-23T02:50:57.918+08:002010-07-23T02:50:57.918+08:00I feel sorry for your lost. I've been there be...I feel sorry for your lost. I've been there before, so i know exactly how you felt that time. But noted this: Everything happen for a reason. Just keep that in mind that this is God's will.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14765414916472023606noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-27273006528673881512010-07-20T04:07:59.421+08:002010-07-20T04:07:59.421+08:00Holding you and your children in prayer.Holding you and your children in prayer.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-30144417408591163122010-06-10T22:54:22.505+08:002010-06-10T22:54:22.505+08:00it is tragic to hear of this but time will heal.. ...it is tragic to hear of this but time will heal.. sad to say- i am not a firm believer of forgiveness and emulating god cos firstly, we are not god. we are but humans and as humans, we can only do so much. secondly, there are situations in life that warrants you not to. but by understanding that it is gods job and duty to forgive and not ours, we will gradually learn to offer certain individuals Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-51645923405717802372009-09-15T23:04:45.714+08:002009-09-15T23:04:45.714+08:00WANDERBLOGGER, thank you for taking the time to re...WANDERBLOGGER, thank you for taking the time to read our story. rest assured that my kids and i have already moved on. yes, i count these kids as my greatest blessing. :)Bing Yaphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01562123246667338670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-37421267681227321672009-06-25T11:37:00.599+08:002009-06-25T11:37:00.599+08:00I am teary-eyed while reading your post. It's ...I am teary-eyed while reading your post. It's so easy to say "I understand what you're going through" or "I understand how you feel to loose a love one" when I haven't lost one. But I can sense that you're a strong woman with beautiful kids. God Bless!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-54697800954723438512009-06-06T12:41:39.852+08:002009-06-06T12:41:39.852+08:00UMME and SEARCHINGWITHIN, thank you for the kind w...UMME and SEARCHINGWITHIN, thank you for the kind words. :) Blessings to both of you!Bing Yaphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01562123246667338670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-66862368007549190042009-06-06T12:40:08.151+08:002009-06-06T12:40:08.151+08:00TITA EDZZ and PHIL, you were so helpful in my pain...TITA EDZZ and PHIL, you were so helpful in my painful journey. I can't thank you enough for the special friendship you have both given me.<br /><br />I have come a long way. I can't stop praising God for pulling me out of such darkness. My heart has learned to forgive... a gift I have given to those who caused pain to my family. In the process, I gifted myself with healing. <br /><br />A Bing Yaphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01562123246667338670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-22547289158556390392009-06-06T12:29:01.124+08:002009-06-06T12:29:01.124+08:00JOSEPH, your comment deeply moved me. I went back ...JOSEPH, your comment deeply moved me. I went back to this page to reconstruct it (due to HTML errors and broken links)and when I started re-writing and editing the post, I felt like I was re-living the entire experience again. Until now, I still don't know how I was able to survive this tragic loss. At that time, it was FAITH that kept me alive. When I could not stand the pain anymore, I justBing Yaphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01562123246667338670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2089796448719547402.post-32411387493107891392009-03-19T22:56:00.000+08:002009-03-19T22:56:00.000+08:00When you commented on a post I made, I immediately...When you commented on a post I made, I immediately clicked on your link to find out who you are and I was in shock when I read this. This is actually the second (or third) time that I read your story and I still feel the sadness in me whenever I do. But it's so nice to see you well and journeying on.<BR/><BR/>Now that I think about it, me and my girlfriend are still in a stage where we're both Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com